Maximizing the Infatuation Interval Strategies for Lasting Engagement

• Definition: The Infatuation Interval is the brief period when your new customer is so excited that they temporarily overlook flaws. It’s the marketing version of falling in love: novelty overrides logic. Just as in personal relationships, where infatuation sharpens focus and triggers strong emotions like jealousy, this heightened emotional state plays a crucial role in shaping customer behaviour and cognition. During the Infatuation Interval, customers’ attention and memory become biased toward emotionally charged details, causing them to focus on and remember key aspects of your product more effectively. This effect influences daily interactions and decisions, making it a critical phase for companies to scale and harness customer engagement and loyalty.
• Why it exists: Neuroscience tells us novelty releases dopamine. Generally, infatuation enhances attention and memory for emotionally charged details, especially when the stimulus is personally meaningful. There is a strong relation between emotional arousal and enhanced memory and attention. Dopamine drives desire and risk tolerance; the process by which dopamine acts increases motivation and willingness to take risks. Customers give you more leeway now than they will later.
• Why it matters: This is when customers form their first stories about your product. That story becomes your brand narrative. Interestingly, attention and memory during this phase are not influenced by whether the information is positive or negative, but rather by the level of emotional arousal it generates, specifically making it crucial to create impactful moments. During this phase, customers are more likely to recall details about their early experiences, which can have a lasting impact on their perception of your brand.

Key Insight: Most companies obsess over “customer lifetime value” but ignore the first 30 days, which is where that lifetime value is largely decided.

How to use it:

• Map the first 30-60-90 days of customer experience.
• Identify every possible “wow moment.”
• Eliminate friction ruthlessly. Each bad micro-moment costs you goodwill you can’t regain.



2. Customer Onboarding: Your Opening Scene

Think of onboarding like the first episode of a hit series. If the pilot flops, viewers don’t come back. That’s why serving as many new users as possible during onboarding is crucial to maximizing engagement and setting the stage for long-term loyalty.



Here are some onboarding principles to keep in mind:

• Make the first experience seamless and intuitive.
• Provide clear guidance and support.
• Personalize the journey based on user needs.
• Have a focused onboarding strategy that aligns with your growth objectives and ensures every step is intentionally targeted toward customer success.

A great onboarding experience not only reduces churn but also helps grow your product's user base by turning new users into loyal advocates.

Principles for onboarding that amplify the Infatuation Interval

• Clarity over Cleverness: Your new user is not reading manuals. Show, don’t tell.
• Immediate Value Delivery: The means by which you deliver immediate value, such as providing instant access to a workspace or template, helps users “win” within minutes. (E.g., Slack’s instant workspace, Canva’s instant template.)
• Feedback Loops: Ask for input early. It signals that you care and provides you with data.
• Progressive Disclosure: Don’t dump all features at once; pace the reveal like a good plot twist.

Action Table – Designing Onboarding

Future Trends: AI-driven onboarding that adapts in real time to user behaviour — think Netflix recommendations for feature adoption.

3. Perceived Value: Beyond Features

Perceived value isn’t your feature list. It’s the story in your customer’s head about what your product does for them. The perceived benefits play a key role in shaping this story, especially during the early phase when customers’ initial excitement is high and their expectations are influenced by what they believe your product will deliver. Just as a person in a state of infatuation focuses intensely on a beloved person, noticing every detail and attributing special meaning, customers during the infatuation interval focus on your product, perceiving it as uniquely valuable compared to others.



• Differentiation: Highlight unique outcomes, not features. “We save you 10 hours a week” beats “We have API integrations.”
• Social proof: Early testimonials, waitlists, or visible usage create a sense of FOMO.
• Brand halo: Packaging, tone of voice, and responsiveness all signal value beyond the core product.

Analogy: If you run a coffee shop, you’re not merely selling coffee. You’re offering a “third space” experience: a welcoming place where people feel comfortable, connected, and inspired beyond just enjoying a cup of coffee.

Framework – Drivers of Perceived Value

Different products deliver these functional, emotional, and social benefits in unique ways, shaping how consumers perceive and engage with each product.

Future trend: Customers increasingly expect values alignment (sustainability, DEI, transparency) as part of perceived value. Your “why” is now part of your “what.”

4. Navigating the Entitlement Period

After infatuation comes reality, customers shift from “Wow” to “Why isn’t this perfect?”. This is the Entitlement Period. Once the infatuation period is over, customers enter this phase where they demand more from the product. For some products, the infatuation interval is a short, intense phase that quickly transitions to entitlement, accelerating the shift.



• Expectations spike: They now compare you not to your old self but to the best in category (Amazon’s shipping, Apple’s UX). During this phase, customers’ desire to possess new features or experiences increases, driving their expectations even higher.
• Complaints rise: This isn’t failure. It’s engagement. They still care enough to be vocal.

Strategies for the Entitlement Period

• Preempt disappointment: Communicate what’s next (roadmaps, feature releases).
• Responsive support: Speed is a feature. A fast “we’re on it” beats a slow fix.
• Continuous improvement: Ship visible upgrades; even small tweaks show momentum.
• Encourage users to stick: Implement strategies that help power users stick around after the initial excitement fades, such as loyalty programs or exclusive features.

Matrix – Transitioning from Infatuation to Entitlement

Future trend: Predictive support (AI flagging at-risk users before they churn) will become table stakes.

5. Performance Metrics: Measuring the Honeymoon

You can’t manage what you don’t measure. Most companies track vanity metrics (such as sign-ups) but not infatuation metrics. Capturing meaningful infatuation metrics can be difficult, especially because recruiting participants for these metrics often presents significant challenges in terms of engagement and recruitment.



The approach to measuring infatuation metrics is similar to methods used in other customer experience studies.

Core Metrics for the Infatuation Interval

• Activation Rate: % of new customers hitting the first success milestone.
• Time to First Value (TTFV): How quickly a user experiences the core benefit. Specifically, TTFV is the most indicative metric of early customer excitement during the infatuation interval.
• Net Emotional Score: Combine NPS with emotional sentiment analysis of the first 30-day feedback.

Metrics Beyond the Interval

• Retention Curve: Does the curve flatten or nosedive after 90 days?
• Expansion Rate: % upgrading or expanding usage after the initial period.
• Support Burden Shift: Ticket volume trend from “how do I” to “why doesn’t it” signals the entitlement phase.

Action Step: Create a dashboard that distinguishes between early-period metrics (activation, TTFV) and long-term metrics (retention, expansion).

Future Trend: AI sentiment analysis on open-ended feedback at scale provides a real-time emotional heat maps of your user base.

6. Pricing and Customer Perception: The Value Equation

The Infatuation Interval is a powerful force in shaping how customers perceive both your product and its price. When customers enter this interval, the novelty and excitement of your offering elevate their perception of value. They’re more likely to overlook potential shortcomings and focus on the benefits. But as the infatuation wears off and customers become fully entitled, they start to notice the product’s potential shortcomings, and their perceived value can decrease. This shift in perception is a natural part of the customer journey, and how you manage pricing during this interval can make or break the long-term relationship.



How Pricing Shapes Early Engagement

Pricing isn’t just a number. It’s a signal that shapes the entire customer experience during the Infatuation Interval. When companies launch a well-received offering at a price that feels fair, they create a positive association that can extend the excitement and novelty of the product.

Customers who pay a premium often feel more invested and excited about the features, which can lead to a longer Infatuation Interval and a deeper connection to the product. For example, a study showed that consumers who pay more for a product are more likely to focus on its novelty and unique features, rather than fixating on potential shortcomings. On the other hand, if the price seems out of sync, either too high or suspiciously low, customers may become fixated on what’s missing, and their infatuation fades more quickly.

Key Insight: The key is to support the customer’s perception of value, so the offering feels worth every penny during this critical interval.

Strategies for Pricing During the Infatuation Interval

To create a successful pricing strategy that maximizes the Infatuation Interval, companies need to reimagine boundaries and focus on delivering value that evolves with customer demands. Consider offering tiered pricing, limited-time discounts, or bundled features that inject excitement and novelty into the customer experience. These tactics not only keep customers engaged but also create a sense of discovery and reward as they explore your product.

Additionally, neuroscience-backed strategies such as price anchoring (displaying a higher “original” price alongside your offer) or scarcity (limited-time offers) can increase perceived value and drive excitement during the interval. By understanding the psychological factors that drive infatuation, companies can develop pricing models that foster long-term loyalty and growth. As customers transition from infatuation to entitlement, be ready to adapt: review your pricing, listen to feedback, and evolve your offering to meet new expectations. This approach ensures your product remains relevant and valued, transforming a fleeting interest into a lasting relationship.

7. Optimizing Customer Interactions

Optimizing customer interactions is the secret ingredient for turning fleeting excitement into lasting loyalty. During the infatuation interval, every touchpoint is a chance for companies to reinforce the emotional connection and keep customers engaged. By understanding how the infatuation interval shapes customer behaviour, companies can design interactions that not only meet but anticipate customer needs, making each moment feel fresh and meaningful.



The key is to treat every interaction—whether it’s a support chat, a product update, or a simple notification—as an opportunity to delight. Companies that excel here don’t just answer questions; they create memorable experiences that extend the interval of infatuation and deepen the customer’s attachment to the offering. This approach transforms routine exchanges into relationship-building moments, ensuring that customers feel seen, heard, and valued throughout their journey.

Tactics for Personalization and Responsiveness

Personalization is the engine that powers customer infatuation. When companies use customer data to tailor experiences—like recommending new features based on usage patterns or sending timely, relevant content—they tap into the excitement and novelty that customers crave. For example, a streaming service that suggests a new show based on recent viewing habits not only surprises the customer but also reinforces the sense that the offering is uniquely attuned to their preferences.



Responsiveness is equally crucial. Addressing questions or concerns quickly shows customers that their experience matters, especially when potential shortcomings arise. Proactive support—such as reaching out when a customer seems stuck or offering solutions before issues escalate—can prevent customers from becoming fully entitled and dissatisfied. Additionally, companies that acknowledge feedback and act on it demonstrate a commitment to continuous improvement, which increases trust and keeps the infatuation alive.

By combining personalization with rapid, empathetic responses, companies can turn potential shortcomings into opportunities for connection. This not only increases the perceived value of the offering but also helps customers stay excited and engaged, even as the initial novelty begins to fade. The result? Customers who feel genuinely cared for—and who are far more likely to stick around for the long haul.

7. Supplementary Materials: Extending Trust & Learning

Transparency builds trust. Supplementary materials aren’t just a compliance checkbox; they’re part of your brand experience.

• Customer-facing resources: Provide knowledge bases, tutorials, and API documentation. These resources also serve as a stimulus to maintain customer interest and engagement.
• Behind-the-scenes transparency: Data privacy statements, sourcing practices, or ESG reports.
• Community-building: Private groups, user forums, or beta programs extend the Infatuation Interval by making customers feel like insiders.

Analogy: Think of your supplementary materials as the “DVD extras” that turn casual viewers into superfans.

Future Trend: Interactive, AI-powered “explainers” replacing static FAQs — voice/chat bots that actually solve problems.

8. Putting It All Together: The Infatuation Interval Playbook

The Four-Step Playbook

Case Example – Slack

Slack’s early success wasn’t just product fit; it was orchestrating the Infatuation Interval:

• Frictionless onboarding: instant workspace.
• Viral perceived value: “email killer” narrative.
• Continuous improvements & playful tone: kept dopamine high.
• Metrics discipline: activation milestones drove product decisions.



9. Futurist View: What’s Next for the Infatuation Interval

• Hyper-personalized onboarding driven by behavioural AI.
• Emotional analytics as a standard KPI.
• Value alignment transparency is becoming a competitive differentiator.
• Community co-creation: customers not just users but collaborators, extending infatuation into advocacy.

In the next five years, the companies winning loyalty won’t just “manage” onboarding — they’ll orchestrate a continuous Infatuation Interval, where novelty, relevance, and trust are constantly renewed.

10. Action Checklist – What You Should Do This Quarter

• Map your current Infatuation Interval (first 30–90 days).
• Identify one friction point and one “wow moment” to optimize.
• Redesign onboarding for speed to first value.
• Launch an early-adopter community or beta group.
• Add at least one emotional metric to your dashboard.
• Publish or refresh your supplementary materials for transparency.



Final Word

You’re not just selling a product; you’re staging an experience. The Infatuation Interval is your opening act. Get it right, and you create customers who stay not because they’re locked in, but because they’re still in love.